Saturday, September 24, 2016
11:05 AM

You were created for a reason different from the person beside you and others. You are God's unique idea. You are created for a purpose.you hv an assignment.  No one else is created to do the things you do. There is a unique calling.
Pay attention to the yes that burn inside you. It is not going to be replicated. This yes on your life is very vital.
Jesus carried a yes in Him. He was here for a specific purpose that no body else can do it.

Luke 8:40-42
People are desperate to get to Jesus. They know Jesus carry the answer.
Do you want to know what God's calling for your life?
If you are not willing to say no, you not able to say yes to what God puts in your life.

When Jesus said yes, between Jesus and the yes was a crowd of desperate people.
People know you carry the release of bondages, they don't care what is your 'yes' within you.
Jesus only does what He sees the Father does.
His food is to do the will of God.
Jesus is not afraid to say 'no' to get to His 'yes' from the Father.

Jesus is not like us.
×When we know He is not like us, we try to change Him.

We carry a ministry of freedom to others.
We get too excited and we cross the boundary

Acts 6
People may not be happy when you say no
Pple cross boundary of level of access to your privacy

Psalm 24:3

Luke 9:1 out of many, 12 disciples had unique access to Jesus

Mark 5:37 among the 12, Peter James and John had even more unique access to Jesus.

John 13:23 John, whom Jesus loves, had unique access to Jesus more than the 12

How do we do with disrespectful people?

It's challenging to set boundary in relationship

Defines boundaries
To keep in what I want to keep in
-Keep what is precious in
To keep out what I want to keep out
To protect the priorities of my life
(Time, energy, etc)

Nobody is accountable to my 'yes', my time, energy, family etc
It is my 'yes' and I am accountable

Jesus is there even before I enter into the intimate room with Him
He knows everything.

Keep your love on (KYLO)
never turn your love off

Isaiah 10:13
Every boundary you set communicate your value
E.g. if I place a wallet where everyone has access, I send the message that I do not value my wallet

Are you sick n tired of it yet?

Overreaction - setting boundary with anger
×Use fear to manipulate environment to satisfy our needs - witchcraft
I train you how to treat me - by overreacting. By setting boundary with anger.
When anger goes away, the boundary is still not set.

Daniel 7:25 scheme of satan is to wear down people of God

Priority and able to say no and do your 'yes'

Boundary communicates value and access

Setting firm boundaries
Learn to require respect & responsibility
(My life is worth dieing for and Jesus proved that)
Not my whining and complaints that set boundary

Tell others what you are going to do

Remember: Words make appeals but actions create requirements

Take part in conversation only that are respectful. Communicate the value.

2 Tim 1:7 God gives us spirit of power, of love and of self control.